Two things.

well. it fucking bothers me when people call me by my last name. I feel like people are looking down on me when they do that. and I know it's normal in japan, but it just doesn't feel that way to me, because I'm not used to it.

I know it's a little weird for people to call a member of opposite sex by their first name, but that's what's natural for us. aaand peoples gotta accept that.

And if you are gonna fucking creep on me, do it openly. Don't try to hide that you're creeping. Because I will know, and when you try to do it secretly, it just makes me see you as a coward. Honestly, I don't mind people creeping on me. Just don't hide it.