75 questions to ask yourself.
1. Why not me?
> because i have problems.
2. Am I nice?
> to certain people, yes.
3. Am I doing what I really want to do?
> not currently but mainly, yes.
4. What am I grateful for?
> my family & friends.
5. What’s missing in my life?
> understanding.
6. Am I honest?
> to certain people, yes.
7. Do I listen to others?
> i dont listen to everyone but some people's words, i listen to.
8. Do I work hard?
> depends on what i'm working on.
9. Do I help others?
> if i can be of help.
10. What do I need to change about myself?
> insecurity.
11. Have I hurt others?
> i guess so.
12. Do I complain?
> more than i should.
13. What’s next for me?
> question number 14.
14. Do I have fun?
> sometimes.
15. Have I seized opportunities?
> i assume so.
16. Do I care about others?
> yes.
17. Do I spend enough time with my family?
> if anything, i spend time with them too much.
18. Am I open-minded?
> hope so.
19. Have I seen enough of the world?
> i guess so.
20. Do I judge others?
> yes.
21. Do I take risks?
> sometimes.
22. What is my purpose?
> that's a good question.
23. What is my biggest fear?
> change. absence.
24. How can I conquer that fear?
> by getting used to it. getting used to change is okay, but absence? no way.
25. Do I thank people enough?
> i hope so.
26. Am I successful?
> no.
27. What am I ashamed of?
> a lot of things.
28. Do I annoy others?
> yes.
29. What are my dreams?
> that's for me to know and for you to find out :)
30. Am I positive?
> sometimes.
31. Am I negative?
> sometimes.
32. Is there an afterlife?
> maybe.
33. Does everything happen for a reason?
> yeah.
34. What can I do to change the world?
> small things.
35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done?
> i dont actually know.
36. Am I cheap?
> hope not.
37. Am I greedy?
> hope not.
38. Who do I love?
> my family.
39. Who do I want to meet?
> people i haven't seen in ages.
40. Where do I want to go?
> the american university. or rutgers, new jersey.
41. What am I most proud of?
> i dont know. i guess IASAS or something.
42. Do I care what others think about me?
> i used to. but not anymore.
43. What are my talents?
> i don't know. swimming?
44. Do I utilize those talents?
> oh yeah, i guess.
45. What makes me happy?
> a lot of things.
46. What makes me sad?
> a lot of things.
47. What makes me angry?
> just a few things.
48. Am I satisfied with my appearance?
> no way.
49. Am I healthy?
> i guess so.
50. What was the toughest time in my life?
> when my grandpa passed away.
51. What was the easiest time in my life?
> when i was in kindergarten.
52. Am I selfish?
> i hope not.
53. What was the craziest thing I did?
> i dont know.
54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?
> climb the tokyo tower or something. i dont know.
55. Do I procrastinate?
> all the time.
56. What is my greatest regret?
> holding on.
57. What has had the greatest impact on my life?
> my grandpa passing away. and the letter he wrote me.
58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?
> my grandparents. and daddy.
59. Do I stand up for myself?
> i try to.
60. Have I settled for mediocrity?
> hopefully not.
61. Do I hold grudges?
> sometimes.
62. Do I read enough?
> yeah. way more than enough.
63. Do I listen to my heart?
> not at all.
64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?
> no.
65. Do I pray only when I want something?
> i dont pray most of the time.
66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?
> yes. it's kind of hard not to.
67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?
> no, i try not to let others bring me down.
68. Do I forgive myself?
> no.
69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?
> nope. i just help whenever its needed.
70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?
> of course.
71. Do I smile more than I frown?
> i used to.
72. Do I surround myself with good people?
> yes.
73. Do I take time out for myself?
> yeah.
74. Do I ask enough questions?
> i assume so.
75. What other questions do I have?
> none really.
#55 - about the only thing you can do well :P
ReplyDeleteit does not do you any good if you keep on regretting something.
ReplyDeleteyou've got to let it go.
you can't change what has happened and regretting it only makes you afraid to move on.
honey, you're good enough.
ReplyDeletedon't ever say you have problems because everyones got problems and thats seriously not a big deal!
there are people, in fact, who absolutely adore you and you know that. don't let him down by bringing yourself down. he has faith in you. we all do. you may not be happy all the time and you're going through some serious disagreement with your mum, but don't let that get to you.
we've all been there before, and we agree with what you are saying about this whole thing!
just know that there are people who believe in you, people who love you for who you truly are and not just some fake bitch that tries to get everyones attention and whatnot.
love you!